Strength: Pre-60, we suggest using dex accessories in order to make up for the lack of dex in the stat build. Post-60, four Wings of Solemn Death are the best way to go until R4 boss drops start becoming more common. On Marea, hardly anybody has them and we do not think anybody has a full set of any R4 boss drops yet. If you are not a member at all of the Exchange Market, try to keep your dex even or slightly above your level and with the other accessories you can use strength and vit.
Dex: Pre-60, use any combination of dex/vit accessories as these are the only two stats you should ever be putting points into. Post-60, we still suggest using Wings as you get an extra 60 physical defense from a full set as well as 15 dex and 15 vit on each accessory. The same applies for dex as strength until R4 drops become more common, Wings are the way to go. If you do not have an EM membership, dex and vit accessories will work just fine.
Hybrid: You can get away with using any accessories that add strength, dex, or vit up until level 60 Rohan Gold where you should be using four Wings of Solemn Death. As you should be adding it every level or so since that's kind of the point of a Hybrid and you should not have any problems missing, you do not have to worry about making up for your dex with accessories.
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